Money & Banking

Missing a mortgage payment: what to do?

Missing a mortgage payment: the right reflexes in a few simple steps.

Written by Mohamed IDBRAHIM · Updated octobre 13, 2026 · 7 min read

Immediate actions

  1. 1 Call the lender before the next payment is due.
  2. 2 Ask about hardship and forbearance programs.
  3. 3 Never ignore the arrears letters.
  4. 4 Get housing counseling for free advice.

What not to do / warning

Lenders have more options the earlier you call them.

When a missing a mortgage payment happens, the first minutes matter. Follow these steps to act safely and without panic.

What to do right now

  1. Call the lender before the next payment is due.
  2. Ask about hardship and forbearance programs.
  3. Never ignore the arrears letters.
  4. Get housing counseling for free advice.

Mistakes to avoid

  • Acting before removing the immediate source of danger.
  • Panicking or skipping the official procedures.
  • Following unverified advice from random websites.

How to prevent this in the future

Regular checks, keeping emergency numbers visible and preparing an essentials kit go a long way. Save this guide for offline access.

Frequently asked questions

What should I do first?

Ensure everyone is safe, remove the source of danger, then call the relevant number or begin the official procedure.

When should I call emergency services?

Whenever life, serious injury or fire is involved. When in doubt, call — dispatchers would rather check than miss an emergency.

Sources & references

  • Consumer Financial Protection Bureau (https://www.consumerfinance.gov/)